A friend of mine read my post As you set out for... and asked me - what do you mean by "love is the journey, not the destination?"
For me this means that the most enjoyable part about love is the everyday life. When I transform myself to be a better partner, when I do something to improve myself and then the relationship I am living the best part of love.
And I think this is true either when you have a partner or you don't. I believe that, if I am expecting to find one day the right woman for me, I have to be prepare for that. So I am preparing now to be the right man. And that for me is love, for me and for my future partner.
As I told her, her own journey, of which she has left a record on her diary, is a proof of love, no matter the end, the destination.