Hope and sights

A German friend of mine commented me about what might happened in Germany with rainbows. They disappered! This was during WWII.

This reminds me that sometimes we are blind because we don't want to see. Not because something doesn't exist.

The first time I thought about it was while reading about the following situation:

You never have seen a cat in your city and one day you have an excited discussion about cats with someone. Suddenly in the next days you start bumping into cats...more cats than never ever in your life.

Or you never see someone you know but one day a third person and you are talking loads about that someone. In the next days you will see this someone everywhere you go.

Who was writting about this asked then: Are we summoning things and persons when we talk about them? Or it is just that they were always there but, suddenly, the mention of them makes us to be aware of their presence.

So maybe on those days people in Germany were not able to summon hope, or they couldn't see their hope because their minds and eyes were busy...

As John Lennon sang to his son... "Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans".

Marion

"I was never lonely, nor alone, nor with others. But I would have liked to be alone at last. Loneliness means: I'm at last whole. How I can say it, as tonight I'm at last alone.

"I must put an end to coincidence. The new moon of decision. I don't know if there's destiny, but there's a decision! Decide!

"We are now the times. Not only the whole town, the whole world is taking part in our decision. We two are now more than us two. We incarnate something. We are sitting in the place of the people and the whole place is full of people who are dreaming the same dream. We are deciding everyone's game!

"I am ready. Now it's your turn. You hold the game in your hand. Now or never!"

The comfortable side of me

I wrote in a personals page:

Romance cannot be continuous...it's like eating your favourite food every day. It will cease to be your favourite. Then, even when we find our perfect partner, the relationship should be enriched by the common and routine things.

And a routine life with someone needs a good communication...and communication is usually achieved sharing an activity. Then some days ago I decided that looking for an activity partner should be a first step. Instead of looking for my "princess" in a first instance! Get to know someone doing something that we both like. And I chose salsa! But it could be something else...Would you like to try?

Why salsa? Well, if you like dancing I can guarantee it will be fun!

But it doesn't need to be dancing...from having a tea/coffe/ale/wine in a cosy place to cycling in the woods...including playing badminton or squash, I am open to what our mood can decide.